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Confession 101

Isabel
Feb 16, 2017
3 min read

Is it possible for you to have a crush to someone and not feel nervous when you see them? Having a crush is sometimes a big deal - what more when you cannot confess what you really feel? There are those times that hiding it is truly tiring, but you cannot do anything about it because you are too much scared to show and confess what you truly feel. Sometimes, we think of the confession so much and we get damn confused that we intend to decide to leave the feeling as it is. Yes, thinking too much make things super complicated.

You always hope and pray for your love to be reciprocated but think deeper. That person you love doesn't even know that you like or desire him/her and now out of the blue, you expect that person to love you back? Isn't it a bit confusing and impossible? Does not even sound good right?

Would you confess your love to that person and risk all those severing ties, connection and even friendships because of the awkwardness your confession would create, or would you just sit there comfortably while watching that person you love taken away by another person who is a good smooth talker than you and who is faster than you announcing his/her feelings. You have been given two choices. Make a choice. Act on it or stay behind. Sometimes, it takes a risky plunge to master the art of confession, but you gotta move now before it's too late. Don't be afraid of rejection. Think of this way, the worst response you could ever get is a "NO". Of course it will hurt. You're insensitive if it will not, but by not saying how you really feel, you're only making things complicated and your life miserable. A big NO is still better than hoping and clinging to a what if and if only statement in the future. Don't wait for your confession be blown by the wind of time and regret those moments that you hide the truth because the fear of rejection holds you back.

Bear in mind that whether your confession is accepted or rejected, that feeling won't last forever. Remember that some people are meant to be with each other and some are not. All of these are merely temporary, so enjoy the moments as much as you can without having sorts of any fear. Confess. Maybe that person is just waiting for you. Maybe that person loves you too... You'll never know unless you confess.... After all, all the good things lie beyond fears. Just enjoy life, enjoy love. You only live once. :)